Jennifer wrote:
Ok, Isa! Here’s my question.My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a 1-1/2 years now. I feel we’re getting closer to accomplishing this (instinct) but do you see a positive result in the near future? We’ve given ourselves to keep trying until the end of the year (we’re not getting any younger, unfortunately). Also due to the fact that I am double the age I was when I first became a mom, I am filled with fear that I will not bear a healthy child. Anything you can shed light on would be great. Hoping I will be blessed to be a “Mommy” for the second time in this life.
Hi Jennifer. I am honored that you’ve asked me such a heart-based question. I know it’s difficult for you to open up to others and become vulnerable so I feel like you’ve just given me the gift of respect and honor.
Jennifer, you have a thyroid problem and it needs to be addressed. You need to go see someone who is more in tune with thyroid and sensitivities of the thyroid.
Recognize that not being able to conceive a child at this time is not a failure on the part of either one of you. The obstacle that is presented in your path is there for a reason.
There is a child that requires you but it is a child that needs to be adopted. It won’t be of your own blood but you will love it like it’s your own. It’s a female child and she will be beautiful and have a strong connection to your family. She will add something that’s missing and she’ll fill your heart with love and provide everything that you’re looking for and way more.
This child will be orphaned from unfortunate circumstances so you providing a family to this child and offering your love is actually a bigger gift than conceiving your own child because you will have more of an impact here. So please don’t feel like not being able to conceive is a negative. It’s actually a positive. It opens you to the opportunity to love another that needs you more than anyone else.
I’m sorry for the loss that you’ve had in the past. My heart goes out to you. The loss that you had in the past is actually the soul that you will adopt. That precious gift is being returned to you so open your arms and embrace it with love.
Please accept my words with the utmost respect and love. God blesses you.
~Isa