Jenn wrote:
Hi, it’s me Jenn. I read the message [Respect and Rejuvenation] that you spoke of. It really touched me, opened my eyes up a lot. I understand what you are trying to get across. I struggle though with my own self worth. I’m hoping you can help me, maybe just a little. I have many goals in life that I want to achieve but I feel as if I can not achieve these, as I’m not taking care of myself that well. I try everyday to believe in myself and make heathy choices (physically and mentally). Maybe if you can help me to start recognizing signs that the universe sends to me, that would be much appreciated. I need to know if that path I want to choose is the right one. Thanks Isa.
Love Jenn.
Hi Jenn. It’s important for you to not allow other people’s views or expectations to interfere with what you choose to do or how you choose to believe in yourself… You’re highly sensitive to other people’s opinions and you tend to take them on for your own. The first thing you need to do is stop doing that and make your own choices from your own thoughts and your own desires for yourself instead. And stop asking everyone else’s opinion because it’s not helping you. You are a very pretty, loving girl and you need to recognize those things within yourself. You don’t see yourself the way you actually truly are and in order to see yourself clearer, you have to eliminate that need to get approval from others and start making choices and decisions for yourself and know that that’s ok. You love yourself, I can feel that and see that, but you think, because somewhere along the line you’ve been shown, that it doesn’t matter if you love yourself if no one else loves you. The important thing is who loves you and how much they love you. However, that’s not true. The important thing is how much you love yourself and if other people choose to love you, that’s a bonus. One of the gifts that you hold is your ability to love others without expectation and you have to recognize that. Your ability to love yourself without expectations from others is the learning you need to engage in. That’s where you need to start and once you have that, you will recognize how good you actually are.
What you have selected in your mind as to what you would like to do is the path you need to take at this time going forward. But don’t allow someone else to try and convince you that it’s not the right way to go. You will have some struggles on that path but keep on it. The rewards will be good in the end.
~Isa